How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 21.06.2025 00:06
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
That's it for today.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What is your review of working in EY?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Making more friends is a goal.
Is it wise to choose your family over your honor?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Why do older people have a hard time using technology?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Why are you a Muslim? Why is it Islam for you and not something else?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
King Charles III pays respects to Air India crash victims at his annual birthday parade - PBS
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Ask yourself:
What I need from you?
What is the reason behind the Russian government's negative view on foreign travel?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
What would happen if Kakashi and Naruto switched places?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
If you were president, how would you make America "great again?"
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Procrastinates a lot.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Is it sinful for Christians to look at beautiful women?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Is crossdressing being a transvestite?
Does not procrastinate.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).